In: Ministries
21 Jan 2010A bit of debate started yesterday in the comment section of this post about Focus on the Family’s decision to purchase approximately $3 million in Super Bowl ad space. So, I wanted to post real quickly to clarify my position.
First of all, James Dobson and the good folks (and yes, I really do believe they are good folks) at Focus on the Family have every right to spend their ministry’s money anyway they choose. And I also think it’s fine that I have a differing opinion. That said, I wanted to make sure that my position is clear: I agree that the pro-life issue is an important one, I don’t believe that this is the most effective way to address the issue. I also agree that football fans need to hear the message of Jesus. And who knows, I might have even had a different opinion if the Cowboys were still in the game… heaven knows they need Jesus (totally kidding people).
That said, I still stand behind my opinion that $3 million could be better served somewhere else. In my opinion. And these are the things that make me feel that way:
* Source: www.one.org ** Source: www.charitywater.org
But for me it goes beyond compelling facts and figures. My friend, Matthew Paul Turner, is in Uganda this week blogging his trip with World Vision. His photos and videos make me realize what bed nets, and vitamins, and water can do. It’s so much more than just money. It means more to me then a fancy Madison Avenue type commercial. And it certainly means more to me than the prospect of 2 minuets of commentary on the “Best Bowl Ads of 2010″ highlight reel.
It means that these guys get a Bible lesson (and the little guy with the distended belly will get a good meal).

It means that this baby can get life saving vaccinations.

It means that this little guy can have a hope and a future.

At the end of the day, Focus can spend how they choose. And so can I. I don’t have $3 million but I do have $32. And I think I need to put my money where my mouth is on this one.
P.S. $3 million also equals sponsorship for 93,750 children for one month. Just sayin… :)
21 Responses to In Response…
David Waters
January 21st, 2010 at 7:07 am
Nicole, $3 Million = clean drinking water for up to 12 million people for life.
*** Source – Waters Edge Ministries ( http://weministry.com )
Karo
January 21st, 2010 at 9:01 am
Wow. I have to say that I totally agree with you on this. $3 million? They can do what they want, but it feels like a waste to me when so many kids could be helped.
davidpeck
January 21st, 2010 at 10:04 am
Thanks for the perspective. For what it’s worth, I agree. I’m going to Uganda in February with a group that installs rainwater collection tanks in villages. $3 million equals 857 more villages with safe, free access to clean water. FoF can do whatever they want with their funds, but, in my opinion, if the choice is between fighting the culture war and helping to people in need, I’ll pick helping people.
Brad Gross
January 21st, 2010 at 10:15 am
I couldn’t agree more with you. $3 million is one big ole chunk of change, and I think Brent had it right when he said this really boils down to a political ad/move for FOTF. I keep reading the scriptures and I can’t find a PSA anywhere! But what I do see is the disciples, and later the body of Christ, moving and taking care of people by feeding them, clothing them and taking care of their needs. Great post, and great way to stir the pot a bit.
Tal Prince
January 21st, 2010 at 10:25 am
Ok – time for the Devil’s advocate -
What would you say to the argument that clean drinking water, bed nets, HIV/AIDS meds, and vitamins are not Focus on the Family’s mission? There are many ministries, which they endorse, that do these things very well – they also have the expertise and networking to do it better.
What would you say about the fact that the $3 Million came from a few donors with the designation that it be used for a Super Bowl ad? They have to use the funds as designated, so it may not have been altogether their choice. We don’t know for sure. The commercial definitely is in line with their stated mission, and since the money came designated for a buy in the Super Bowl, what should they have done?
Let’s not underestimate the value of a well done, well placed Super Bowl ad.
Also, knowing some of the people at focus, I know they pray a great deal over their financial decisions. Who are we to step in and say it’s wrong, if they truly believe they are following God on this one?
As a ministry director, some of the toughest choices come down to sticking to mission. There are many great things to do – sticking to what God’s called us to do is sometimes difficult and always distracting.
At the end of the day, in this ad, Focus will present the Gospel. I can never argue against that.
Thanks Nicole! Always appreciate your willingness to put your opinion out here!
Elora
January 21st, 2010 at 10:37 am
Nice discussion indeed. I tend to side more with Compassion/World Vision/Charity:Water etc… but I can totally understand Tal’s point of view. If anything, this debate makes you think. I’m definitely going to be chewing on this for awhile because let’s be honest – while there may have been donors is specifically designated funds for a Super Bowl commercial, I can’t for the life of me recall any specific ad from last year.
Nice post, Nicole.
Elora
January 21st, 2010 at 10:38 am
*and I’m totally embarrassed by the grammatical errors in that last comment. don’t judge me. :)
Ken
January 21st, 2010 at 11:46 am
If your argument is that FotF should spend the money doing something more social conscience, don’t we all have issues?
Have you bought a cup of coffee at Starbucks recently? Did you know that you could have had Folgers and give the rest of your money to help thirsty African children? http://www.water.cc/initiatives/onedollarwater/
Or may coffee isn’t your thing, but you went to go see U2 is concert and spent $100 doing so. You could have listened to their latest album on iTunes for $10 and given $90 to charity.
Or maybe we should start to question how much each of our churches spends a year in marketing? I bet your church–even the most traditional or rural or tiny churches have spent enough money on local promotion that they could have fed a hungry family at least one meal.
When we start challenging how OTHERS spend money, we start sliding down the slope. Let FotF decide how they are going to spend their money just like we let Pepsi and Budweiser choose how they are going to spend their money.
@LaureeAshcom
January 21st, 2010 at 2:44 pm
hmmm ken. so your point is about who should really cast a stone? i always love to be pushed to see through other’s eyes.
thanks to all of you. especially you nicole!
David
January 21st, 2010 at 5:08 pm
From a non-US perspective (FoF isn’t exactly a well known name down here, though James Dobson’s name has a bit more profile), and also from someone who makes big financial decisions on how other people’s money gets used – both in business and in church – I basically agree with Tal on this. I can’t comment on the ministry/mission/politics side-discussion that’s been going on though :)
It is easy to say that money could have been better spent. There’s so many aspects we don’t know for sure, and this may well be God’s plan for that $3m dollars, and the money He wants spent on poverty relief is to come from somewhere else. We’re not God, and we’re not the stewards of that $3m. Like Ken said, we can only be the stewards of the money we do have, so listen to God’s prompting on where to sow what we have, rather than concerning ourselves with how God is leading others to allocate the resources that they steward.
David
January 21st, 2010 at 5:09 pm
Sorry, that sounds harsh. I love this discussion, and everyone involved. Thanks for hosting it Nicole!! :D
Makeda
January 21st, 2010 at 6:10 pm
Not usually someone who walks the line, I’m going to have to say I see both sides of this equation. My first thoughts were that the $3M could have definitely been used in a different way to reach more people effectively but then I have to remember that my definition of what effectively reaching people might mean is likely different than others. I like Tal Prince’s perspective and he is right. FOTF has a mission and they need to do what God has told them to do and how He has told them to do; I can’t argue against that thought process at all. If I had $3M I would spend it differently but that doesn’t make it right or wrong just simply different. Great discussion though.
mpt
January 21st, 2010 at 6:39 pm
$3 million?! Well, one thing is for sure, “god” (should that be big “G” or little “g” when referring to Focus on the Family?) will have the worst commercial of the evening.
A total waste of money.
Tori at Babybloomr.com
January 21st, 2010 at 6:49 pm
I am profoundly on the ‘money could be better used elsewhere’ side of the issue. Yes, it is FOF’s money and they have the right to spend it in whatever way they choose. But in the wake of this week’s events in Haiti, I am hard-pressed to justify spending 3 million dollars hoping that someone will be moved to possibly accept Christianity as opposed to spending 3 million dollars to provide food and water and shelter for untold millions of God’s hurting children world-wide. Seems like a no-brainer to me.
Alex Lowe
January 21st, 2010 at 7:26 pm
I’m praying that the ad has a massive impact on people and that God’s love is obvious to all. I’m sure we’d all agree that families do indeed need to be inspired as the CEO of FoF is quoted in the press release.
The press release also says that the donors “gave specifically to the project”. That reads to me that FoF had the idea and donors wanted to support. It doesn’t sound like donors gave unsolicited and FoF was then somehow obligated to do a commercial. If that had been the case, I pray that they indeed sought God’s direction because they could have went back to the donors to show them how the funds could be better used (assuming there is a better use). Our church has done this before with great success. As others said though, hopefully they feel God leading them in this direction which obviously makes the ad the right thing to do.
michaeldanner
January 21st, 2010 at 7:26 pm
Engaging discussion! What, if any, direction do we have from Jesus’ teaching? What do teachings like the Sermon on the Mount have to say? Especially curious about how we understand the sheep and the goats in Matthew 25:31 – 46? Does that speak into the issue?
I like what Ken has to say, but I wonder why he concludes that because we spend money on concerts and coffee, money that could save lives, that spending 3million on a tv ad is OK. Is it possible that two or three or four wrongs don’t make a right? Maybe we shouldn’t, as Jesus’ people, spend money on Starbucks when our brothers and sisters are dying from lack of clean water. Why isn’t that a legitimate conclusion given Jesus’ life and teaching?
I’m not convinced Jesus would see this a mater of opinion, like we seem to. He clearly and specifically told us to feed the hungry, clothe the naked, and give water to the thirsty. He never told us to invest 3million in a Superbowl ad. Just saying, in the midst of all the grey on this one, it’s pretty clear that one side of the equation has Jesus’ endorsement – he commanded it and said we would be judged based on whether or not we do it.
Unfortunately, I had a hot chocolate at Starbucks today, so I don’t fully believe this yet, but I’m trying.
Alex Lowe
January 21st, 2010 at 7:51 pm
Michael – isn’t it a both/and? I mean, Jesus did call us to proclaim the gospel to all the nations too. I would call a Gospel driven tv spot spreading the good news as Jesus commanded. Sharing the good news and taking care of the least of these are not mutually exclusive.
Tal Prince
January 21st, 2010 at 10:58 pm
Just a couple more points as this one has been on my mind a great deal today. I think we need to be very careful in how we discuss this, and this discussion has been very civil and cordial.
I think there are two Scriptures that are very important to look at here.
The first is 1 Corinthians 12:12-31. This is Paul’s passage about the Body of Christ – all parts are needed. I think that’s true when it comes to ministries as well. God has placed passions and vision for different types of ministries in many people. He then equips them to pursue that vision. He then brings alongside people with similar passion and vision, that have the ability to fund that vision and passion. Who are we to disagree with that? Those ministries need to stay focused on their God given mission.
I know that Compassion International, World Vision and Blood:Water Mission are all very popular right now. They resonate with our generations, and we all like what they do. But, they don’t typically get involved in domestic tragedy, right? And they shouldn’t. They have a different mission and vision – and God has provided funding for them, and continues to do so.
We are all called to be and work in different parts of the body – none is any more important than another. Follow the passion and vision God has given you, and focus your time, talent and treasure on that.
The second passage is Matthew 26:6-13. Now when Jesus was at Bethany in the house of Simon the leper, a woman came up to him with an alabaster flask of very expensive ointment, and she poured it on his head as he reclined at table. And when the disciples saw it, they were indignant, saying, “Why this waste? For this could have been sold for a large sum and given to the poor.” 10 But yJesus, aware of this, said to them, “Why do you trouble the woman? For she has done a beautiful thing to me. 11 For zyou always have the poor with you, but ayou will not always have me. 12 In pouring this ointment on my body, she has done it bto prepare me for burial. 13 Truly, I say to you, wherever cthis gospel is proclaimed in the whole world, what she has done will also be told din memory of her.”
The estimates on the amount of money the jar would have cost vary, but it was at least a year’s salary – an obscenely offensive gesture at the time. Much like $3 Million for an ad today. Does Jesus see it as a beautiful thing that these donors gave this amount of money? I believe it was given sincerely and generously, and God has to be pleased with that. Why should we be indignant and ask as the disciples did, “Why this waste?” Jesus reminds us, starkly, the poor we will always have with us.
With a Super Bowl audience of 93.2 Million people, Focus on the Family is spending roughly $30 per person to show a well done commercial with one of the most prominent college football players of the past few years. His mother was advised to abort him. Thankfully, she did not. The hope is that one, or more abortions are avoided as a result. Even if only one – was it worth the price tag?
Sally Hanan
January 21st, 2010 at 11:17 pm
It’s like the constant fight in me to want to give my tithe to people who really need it v. giving it to pay my church’s staff salaries and its mortgage. (Not that I want to start a tithing argument.)
In consideration of the Superbowl ad, there are many people in the US who have never given abortion a second thought, and this ad might knee jerk them into some kind of thought process whereby they can see the value of fetal life differently.
Nicole
January 21st, 2010 at 11:35 pm
Thanks for the comments folks! Maybe I should disagree with Focus more often ;) Seriously, I am so glad to see so many good friends posting here. Tal, Brad, Ken, and Alex… thanks for dropping by… It was really, really nice to hear from you guys on this. I respect your opinions so much. Even when we don’t agree :)
MPT – How did I know we’d agree on this??? Hope all is well in Uganda my friend. Love reading your blog this week and I can;t wait to talk when you get home. Also, thanks for allowing me to use your pictures.
mpt
January 23rd, 2010 at 10:30 pm
Tal,
Just an fyi: World Vision does have projects here in the states…
No point to be made, except to offer the info… :)
Matthew